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Photo by Jorge Fernández on Unsplash Over 14 million couples in the United States are plugged into this complicated journey of long-distance relationships, few things in life are as challenging as maintaining a loving relationship over long distances. It requires a level of resilience and commitment that few possess.  Yet, those who are able to sustain such relationships are a testament to the enduring power of love. Their unwavering dedication is an inspiration to us all. While modern technology serves as a bridge, allowing partners to connect in a remarkable way, The challenges inherent in navigating the vast space between them are not to be underestimated. 😕 From inspiring stories I read about long-distance relationships and some successful couples around me, my new inspiration is to focus on exploring long-distance love and the fears that come with it. For most people, long-distance dating is impossible because it involves a unique set of emotional dynamics. From the yearnin...

Image credit There's a popular misconception about giving that if you give endlessly, selflessly, and without reservation, you are embodying a virtue that elevates you above others.  While generosity and kindness are undoubtedly admirable qualities, there's a clear difference between being a genuine giver and falling into the trap of over-giving. This makes us drop an important question: "Are you settling the fairness boundaries and reviewing your priorities"? There's more than enough history and testimonials to back up the fact that there are blessings in sharing with kindness and doing charities. In fact, the Gospel of Luke (6:38) echoes the sentiment that giving is a reciprocal act. 'Give, and it will be given to you...' encapsulates the idea that generosity not only benefits others but also brings abundance to the giver. It's a call to embrace a spirit of selfless giving, acknowledging the interconnectedness of humanity. In Islam, the Quran (2:261)...

We all encounter people who seem to lack compassion or empathy. Whether it's a coworker, family member, or stranger, dealing with someone who doesn't care can be frustrating and even hurtful.  But instead of letting their behaviour affect you, it's important to learn how to handle these individuals with grace and understanding. Understanding the Root of the Problem Before we dive into strategies for handling people who don't care, it's important to understand why they may behave this way. Often, people who lack compassion or empathy have experienced some form of trauma or have been conditioned to suppress their emotions. Trauma and Emotional Suppression People who have experienced trauma, whether it be physical, emotional, or psychological, may have difficulty connecting with others and expressing empathy. This is because trauma can cause individuals to shut down emotionally as a coping mechanism. Similarly, some people may have been raised in environments where emo...

We are often taught to be kind, polite, and considerate of others. While these are admirable qualities, there is a fine line between being nice and being too nice. In fact, being too nice can have negative consequences on our mental and emotional well-being. In this article, we will explore the dangers of being too nice and how it can break you. What Does It Mean to Be Too Nice? Being too nice means constantly putting others' needs and wants before your own, often at the expense of your own well-being. It involves being overly accommodating, avoiding conflict, and always seeking approval from others. While these may seem like positive traits, they can lead to negative consequences if taken to the extreme. 1. Emotional Manipulation by Jared Brashier One of the dangers of being too nice is that it can make you vulnerable to emotional manipulation. Overly nice people are often seen as easy targets for manipulators who take advantage of their kindness and willingness to please. Manipu...

Have you ever wondered why the simple phrase, "When people treat you like they don't care, believe them," resonates with everyone worldwide? It's because life is tough , people will care no more when their social status changes and most of them will start treating you like a stranger. This wonderful quote of wisdom reveals insights that can guide us in understanding how, who, and why this quote resonates universally. How It Rings True: Decoding Actions and Intentions In our complex web of interactions, actions often reveal more than words. The quote emphasizes observing behavior, encouraging us to trust tangible signals rather than relying solely on verbal assurances. By embracing this perspective, individuals can navigate relationships with a discerning eye, enabling connections built on genuine care and mutual understanding. Who Can Relate: A Universal Truth for All This quote exceeds cultural, social, and demographic boundaries, creating a depressing memory for any...

The craziest reality about life is that people will only love you if they can get something from you but if they can't anymore you'll start to notice some changes in their behaviors that make you feel rejected. As a sad reader, smile now because it's never a new reality; but has been noticed many years ago, even before our generation. I'm never here to judge because I know if you had known a lot earlier, you couldn't have made some mistakes, and that is what we should cover but the most important message here is to think of yourself first and as well forgive yourself. To be very honest, your problem in the first place was that you want to be that person who everyone loves, you don't want to have a problem with anyone or be judged by any, you try to be perfect and keep a memorable image in others' heart due to your kindness. Being kind and good is never a bad thing but becomes bad in two conditions: when you overdo them and when other people's opinions i...

You always want to make the fullest out of life but there's always something against that; past experiences, lost hopes, and more importantly negative thoughts. While there are countless self-care practices to explore, one powerful tool that can help you visualize your desires and aspirations is a vision board. In this blog post, we'll delve into the art of creating a vision board specifically tailored for self-care, so that you can manifest your dreams and cultivate a more fulfilling and joyful life. Understanding the Power of Vision Boards: Vision boards are visual representations of our goals, dreams, and desires. By using images, words, and symbols that resonate with your intentions, you can tackle or practice the power of visualization and bring your aspirations to life. And these vision boards serve as powerful reminders of what we truly desire, and they can help you stay focused, motivated, and inspired throughout your self-care journey. Identifying Your Self-Care G...

Image source Money can provide us with many pleasures and comforts in life, from fancy cars to luxurious vacations. But is that all there is to life? Is money the ultimate source of happiness and fulfillment? The answer, as many would argue, is no. While money can certainly make life more comfortable, it does not guarantee happiness. In fact, many people who have achieved great wealth and success have reported feeling unfulfilled and unhappy. This is because money can only satisfy our basic needs, such as food, shelter, and security. Beyond that, it has diminishing returns on our well-being. So, if money is not the key to happiness, what is? Love. Love is a fundamental human need that goes beyond material possessions. It can bring a sense of purpose, meaning, and fulfillment to our lives. Love can foster positive emotions such as joy, empathy, and compassion, which are essential for our mental and emotional well-being. When we prioritize love over money, we are making a conscious choic...